My ex is driving me mad!

[Louw12345]

He has his set days with his kids. Then dropped the younger ones off to has his eldest for longer.
I'm pissed of that I can't just separate the kids so I can have one on one time with them. He could of has the younger ones longer and he knows it.
He's just asked my older daughter if she wants to stay on Saturday. But it's not his weekend. I am away but really not the point. When he picked his days.

[Vikkijayne]

I sympathise my ex is the same drives me crazy xx

[BlackeyedSusan]

mine don't stay at his, but we visit regularly. it is ok for him to arrange something on days he would see them and ask for swaps, but gets the sulks when the kids have something on and we swap. I have a long standing arrangement once a month so we see him on a saturday instead of sunday, (benefits the children as they get to play with other children, one has asd and does not do much playing with other children so this is a big deal) he sulks baout it every month. every month he comments that we do not have to go every month. this is the only time I get out and see other adults. (disabled children) as it is the only place the children are capable of being supervised by all adults there.

he turns down contact regularly enough too, so not as if he is taking up all is offered.

took him on2 wk holiday with us. and he spends all the bank holidays with us if he has not arrangesd something else.