Hoping to get some opinions/ perspective on this.
We have shared residency. I have DS 4/7.
I claim no benefits except child benefit. Ex contributes very little/nothing financially. He might occasionally buy DS clothes or pay for a school trip, but I bear the majority of the financial responsibility. I don't chase ex for money as its more hassle than it's worth.
Ex has now decided he wants to claim the child benefit instead of me. This is because if he can show the council he has DS with him the majority of the time he can claim housing benefit. He promises he will give me back the child benefit every month as he doesn't actually want/need that money, just the housing benefit/tax credits he can claim if he is in receipt of child benefit.
I don't want to do this. At all. I also suspect that any benefit claim he makes will be fraudulent as he is self-employed and has "cooked" his books and not filed a tax return or anything for years.
At the moment our relationship is amicable. He has the potential to get very nasty if I don't do what he wants. Is there anyway I can skirt round this? Or am I just going to have to tell him to fuck off and suffer the consequences?
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HoundOfTheBasketballs · 23/06/2016 16:37
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