This is dads second application to court fist one he emailed day before saying he didn't want to see his children, got another one in Jan , caff cass did a feelings and best wishes, to cut a very very long story short , my children's dad has a 5 year restraint order for common assult on me , my leagle aid was granted through proving domestic violence and abuse , been back to court , they have orderd I take my children to a contact center for 6 sessions 3 for 1 hour 3 for 2 hours , my children haven't seen him for nearly a year and half ! The courts want to do a lets see what happens !! If I do t do it , I'll be the one in trouble, if I do it I'm putting them back into a bad situation,they are too young to make that kind of decision, feelings and best wishers were , my s/n ( no , then I don't know / then I want someone to tell me ) how confused is that ! My d/r yes but he's not important to me, can I take my teddy cos I'm worried ? The caff cass report, also what she wants in the hole wide world is a unicorn? He walked out on xmas day , had the kids , after a week lowers the contact , 3 weeks in , one wouldn't stay with him so he Beaufort them back at night , so I said ok have both bring the one back , but let the other stay , I got a text saying that if both wouldn't stay he wasn't having ither , I quote I got I decline the offer to see my kids ! So I contacted a sure start center , on the 3rd week he phoned em and said he wasn't seeing them anymore , hence I know there's more ! Courts his application! Wouldn't comply with caff cass / risk assessment or the alcohol test , then withdrew day before 2 hearing ! What do I do !!
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