Help! My daughter (10) is flatly refusing to see her father. We have been separated only a few weeks (due to his behaviour) and he has started a relationship with another woman (who has no children and manages a pub) He's a functioning alcoholic who has never really been interested in the children (also have a 7 yr old so with him). We have had a dreadful year - he was arrested for violence against me last year and has been verbally abusive, in front of our daughter while drunk, after Christmas. I have had to cut all contact between myself and him. He is now wanting to see them (for 2 hours on a Sunday!) My sister is mediating for us at the moment but daughter is refusing point blank. Son also says the same but I think he's just following her lead. What do I do? Last time we saw him he stank of stale drink. He has no plans for them and has flatly refused to provide a second home for them. Has refused to address his drinking and has no chosen a new partner who has a pub! So many bad choices. Do I force them to see him? He has a older son who he has never bothered with. I'm so torn as I don't want them to hate him but I don't want them exposed to his issues/bad choices either. I really don't know what to do 😢
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