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worrying about the future!

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hurtandconfued2016 Sun 20-Mar-16 17:19:03

Ex left 9 weeks ago when I was 32 weeks pregnant and have a 2 year old.
I am stressing!!
Me and ex own a house together but I have moved into my parents to recover after csection. He has handed his key over to his parents wants nothing to do with it. We can't sell the house yet as we haven't been in it for 2 years.
But any I'm stressing when I had our son my ex wanted me to reduce my hours to look after our son so I got a new job and went from earning good money to not earning much.
But now that he has left I have the worry about money! I don't want to give up the house as I worry I will never be able to get on the property ladder again. But now I need to find a job that will help with all the bills!
My ex had agreed on maintenance for the 2 kids but now that he is in a new relationship he only wants to pay bare minimum. (Hasn't paid anything for them yet also didn't buy anything for the newborn either) I have had to buy everything myself with no help from him at all!
I just worry I am never going to be able to give my kids everything the need and they will miss out on something because I can't afford it.

starry0ne Mon 21-Mar-16 19:13:41

He needs to be paying his share of the mortgage as well...

Why has he paid nothing.. If you suspect he isn't going to pay contact the CMS asap.. IT won't be backdated...I assume he has been paid at least twice..

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