Extended weekend contact is just about to start following the court process and I've found out that my ex isn't even going to be around for part of the weekend and has arranged for his mother to step in. I'm not even finding out this information from him which is out of order.
We are not on good terms as he was controlling and abusive and we have been through completely unnecessary court proceedings where he already had significant contact and came out with nothing more than I had already offered.
He's probably not breaching the court order but I don't feel our child is a consideration for him in any of this and he would be far better coming home to me early if his dad isn't around. Part of the issue has been his lack of commitment and it's crazy it's happening as soon as he has more access.
He also has a girlfriend who is always there but I know nothing about her and he's never mentioned her himself. I've only heard about her from my LO and am concerned she could be left alone in charge at times.
Not very good at standing up to him so what do I say?
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bluecashmere · 25/02/2016 12:39
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