Basically I have offered ex for our 16m old every other weekend and he is welcome to come over and visit here in the week. He wants to have her Saturday through til Monday every other week because he doesn't want to come over for his evening in the week. However, he works Monday's so it would be his mum who has her all day. He would come home from work and drop her off with me 2 hours later. This would mean on that week I would only get to spend one day with my daughter. When I suggested the evening a week he said 'well that is so my mum can see her'
Am I right in thinking it is his responsibility to take her to see his mum when it is his weekend with her, and I should not be expected to accommodate her within our access agreement?
If anyone can help, I'm treading on egg shells at the moment because he can be so rude when we discuss things face to face yet the complete opposite when we discuss things via message (when there's a record) ... I worry he knows exactly what he's doing and want to word my responses in the right way. He also wants a solicitor to witness our access agreement? I've never prevented access or said no to him seeing her, so I've no idea where this is all coming from. He is the one who doesn't make much effort
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leannarose5 · 05/01/2016 21:42
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