Can't say too much but there has been a change in circs for dd's dad, and I can't stop worrying that he might go for full residency of our daughter.
She's happy, healthy and thriving at school (which is closer to our home) and there's no SS involvement (or ever has been). Everyone says I'm a good mum, she is well balanced. She has told me previously (within the last few weeks even) that she would not want to live with him and his new family, but because of the new situation it bothers me that he will try to get her living with him (mainly to avoid a court ratified contribution allowance I get for her) and use the argument that I work full time and she comes home to an empty house during the week.
If I lose her I will have lost everything - I can cope with her growing up and moving on with her life, but having to give her up to her father would destroy me.
Please, please could any of you offer me some reassurance? Discussing this with him is NOT an option, he lives his life totally separate to us now, I don't even drop/pick up dd off at his house as he wants us all kept compartmentalized.
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Anyone know if a court would listen and take note of what a 12/13 year old said IF the other parent went for residency?
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Foslady · 11/12/2015 20:49
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