My stress levels have been through the roof recently!
Between DSs dad being a douche, being skint & kids acting up I feel I barely able a chance to breathe!
Christmas has put a massive strain on the finances, even though I planned it a bit better this year I still find myself with barely a penny to my name (maybe something to do with driving test coming up, another stress factor!) then things like boiler breaking send me over the top!
DSs dad now seems to think it's ok to be late for pick ups & drop offs & then decide to phone 5mims beige pick up 'can I please change me day' NOOO!! 'Can u swap me weekends cause I've got a party' NO! He wouldn't do it for me so not doing it for him! Then getting the 'I'll leave the boys with my mum' NO! (His mum is having some issues at the moment & im not comfortable with her being alone with kids when she is in a fragile state, any other time it would be no problem)
Then the kids, it seems December & the arrival of xmas decorations has sent them nuts!! I spend my days arguing, threatening that Santas watching, screaming, redecorating the xmas trees about 10times a day, constant trips to the naughty step etc etc etc. One is at nursery so at least I get a bit of a break, but it's honestly to the point I am excited when nursery time comes cause my head is bursting that much! Today I shouted so much I passed out!! I had literally just finished saying 'if I have to tell u once more u are going to bed' then boom it all went dark & I was on the floor. I am fed up of being skint, fed up of shouting 24/7, fed up of being the bad guy, just fed up completely! Sorry I think I just needed a little rant
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Hawest1 · 03/12/2015 18:42
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