Just received a message from eldest DC - 2DC are with XHB for 2 weeks.
Message reads: hi mummy, just wanted to say dad has been talking a load of crap about you again tonight and this is the last time we are coming here.
Background: DC1 (14) and DC2 (12) see their dad twice a year as he lives abroad. In between visits he skypes them sporadically and even lectures them during these calls instead of "spend time with them".
I can honestly say that I don't speak badly about him to the DC and try to be the peace maker, if you will, when they have a rant about him.
He continuously bad mouths me to them. No idea why he feels the need to as we have been separated 9 years, divorcd for 7 and he has remarried.
For the record, he has not paid any maintenance for over 2 years but I have said he needs to pay half of DC1's v expensivw school trip that I have already fully paid, so that may have set him off.
There is no contact order on place as we were divorced abroad and have since both moved to different countries complicated!!
Do I have to send the DC next time or are they considered old enough now to decide for themselves?
Any advice/insight much appreciated!!!
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Absolutely fuming - what do I do now?
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EatMeSeymour · 17/08/2015 21:23
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