Good morning ladies. I would just like to get off my chest the various mistruths that abound about us wonderful ladies raising children on our own.
First off society may assume we are benefit scroungers and living in council houses. Wrong. Most of us indeed by far the majority are in gainful employment and either rent or own our own homes. That said I am not condemning those that are in receipt of benefit income nor residing in council or social housing homes. It is just that they are the minority that is all not the majority like most of society would seem to believe!
In addition and this is particularly true of men I have found - assume we are weak and sad and desperate for love. This couldn't be further from the truth - we are strong emotionally, generally just as happy as any other person in society - and not in a rush for becoming part of a couple again. We aren't lonely like most people assume we are. We might be busier than most however.
There is also an assumption from a great deal of men that we must be desperate for sex. I am not drop dead gorgeous but I can honestly say that sex is the easiest thing in the world to get - one simply has to register a free profile online containing a recent photo face pic and in no less than a few hours there are many men up for casual sex - if that is our thing of course!
Why is it that society can perceive us in such a wrong light? I guess a lot of it is media distortion. I wish something could be done about it.
I look forward to others' opinions. :)
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Flowerpower41 · 08/08/2015 06:24
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