Hello, am new here!
I have been out of work for nine years - I have an older child on the autistic spectrum and just as my child was starting at school, i had another baby, now a toddler. They are 9 and 2.
We are doing fine on benefits - we get DLA, carers, income support, CTC etc and it is plenty to get by and even save a tiny bit.
However after nine years out of work -I am absolutely desperate to get a job!!! I can't get a new tenancy, never meet any adults, a mortgage is out of the question.... and it is just a self respect thing. I want to be able to provide for my family.
However sadly my WHOLE family live abroad (i was born n raised here) the kids dads are not involved, and if say i had to take the day off to look after the kids for any reason, i can't imagine many employers being very understanding. There is literally nobody else here who would or could look after them!
The second issue is finding a job with the right hours for mums. I am not at all flexible in the hours i can do - it needs to have hours between 9 and 5 monday to friday and the same hours every week
I also do not drive :(
I am absolutely stumped. I have a degree from one of the top universities in the world, but have only ever worked in retail- as soon as i finished my degree I got pregnant! However I am terrified of getting a "good" job as the employers would tire of me having to take time off for kids constantly, i know there are laws against this but i hate the thought of being resented in the workplace. also i do not get a lot of sleep as my toddler is still often up in the night.
Can anyone suggest anything at all? All I can think of is supermarkets, but i cannot bear the thought of this as the bright lights give me headaches - i have worked in them before and it was hell because of this. Wrking in a school is not an option as much as i love them i don't think i could cope being around kids all day, i tried teaching and it just was not for me.
It has to be 24 hours a week or more otherwise i will be worse off.
don't know where to start. any help appreciated however outlandish!!
Feel SO TRAPPED.
Thank you! Emilie x
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EmilieElephant · 30/06/2015 23:19
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