Hello, I need a bit of advice pls.
My ex and have have a very acrimonious relationship, he was very controlling etc and I can't stand to even look at him.
He has taken me to court twice now to try and gain residency for the children, he now has joint residency and the majority of weekends as I work on those weekends.
I want to stick rigidly to the court order. That's the point of it, to reduce the need to communicate with each other . He cannot be reasonable, he is incredibly abusive towards me and my family.
He had them for tea on a Monday and has been bringing them back late every single time by 20 mins/ half an hour or so. I asked him to stick to the time agreed, he argues back as per. My daughter (9) jumped in to say 'it doesn't matter, we see you more than daddy anyway, so we get more time with him'
I can deal with shit from him, I expect it but I am so so hurt by what she said.
I want to tell her it's not true, I barely spend any quality time with them. It's like listening to him talk when she says that, I don't know what to do.
It seems like no big deal when I write it down but it's really upset me
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Zame · 15/06/2015 19:39
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