Long long backstory of dv and two years in court. Supervised contact granted for a few months then moving to unsupervised. DD attended a couple of the supervised and just one of the unsupervised. After the first unsupervised, she wrote to the judge to say they had been hit, dragged and spoken to badly during the contact and that she didn't want to go again.
Despite me taking her to the meeting point each week, she refused to go with exh. DS did go.
In court this week for enforcement proceedings. I have been told that dd is not old enough to make decisions, there are no safeguarding concerns and dd is to attend the full time of contact.
Contact has been changed from a meeting point to exh house, and I have been ordered to "leave her on the doorstep and drive off" if that what it takes to make sure she stays. DD reports she will run off and has also made comments about killing herself if I make her go.
How on earth do I even get her out of the car to leave her there? And how can I just leave her there knowing her concerns - what if she does run off, who will SS and the police blame then? I'm so concerned about her safety and mental health. She's never even been inside his house before. I don't know what to do.
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ilovemilton · 06/06/2015 09:08
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