Is there any way of absolving someone of their legal responsibilities ? I mean to not take maintenance and they have nothing to do with their child.
I realise it's not a lot of information there, basically my stupid fling has gone back to his (I fell for the story!!) wife and he's denying that our daughter is his - I've spoken to her, she's fully aware of it all although with him lying through his teeth to her (which she also knows but that's up to her ) and telling her I'm making it all up. I don't want to drag my daughter through all kinds of mess with him being like he is, he's a manipulative liar who claims to have all sorts of mental health problems as well as his general "being a nice human being" issues.
I want to know if I can do anything to effectively tell him that ok, you keep telling yourself and your wife that she's not yours, even though you know it's another lie. I neither want nor need anything from you and you can go back to pretending she doesn't exist.
I also need to add that I have no problem with helping her have contact with him if she wants to when she is old enough to make her own decisions about things, but she and I are far better off without him - I just want to make it official so I can't be accused of anything in the future.
No idea if that makes sense how I mean it....
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Trudij123 · 02/05/2015 13:51
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