Been divorced many years now. Children still relatively young. Mother's Day is a 'thing' for me and important to the children. They were at their father's yesterday and whilst he sent them with presents for me, he also had them sign cards and buy presents for the woman he recently got engaged to. She has been around for about 18 months now - this is a long time in the history of the ex and the children like her. I have no issue with her generally (the children seem to like her) but I do have issues with women who stand by men who don't pay child maintenance (and move in with a man within 2 weeks of meeting him without ever having met his children). Anyhow...
I did my best to keep a straight face and said it really doesn't matter and not to worry about it - all that matters is that we have a nice day together. Inside I am half fuming he thinks it appropriate and half terrified he's going to make some kind of play for them legally (which he'd lose, I know, but doesn't stop the worrying). They have a mother - me!
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fedupbutfine · 13/03/2015 22:11
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