still no payment under new cmo

2 payments missed. Under their new rules there is no way he can dodge it unless he packs his job in is there? Keep thinking he must know more than me cos he's so sly. I'm not missing anything am I?

Told them straight away and they are putting him on collect and pay if he doesn't pay up. Stupid delay tactics that are only going to hurt himself aren't they? You shouldn't rely on the money I suppose but my baby boy needs so much at the minute. So selfish

You're so right there! I think the fact he doesn't want to know him and he felt forced into fatherhood is the main factor. He only got in touch when csa did. Its not like I was a bit on the side or anything either we were together properly for a very long time. he just didn't want my boy. He's an absolute sociopath IMO I'd outlived my usefulness. Someone said to me he can't face you because of the guilt. If he felt that guilty he would just pay wouldn't he? I honestly believe Star that these men don't give a shit at all.

I think thats worse than them just not bothering at all Karma. I'm so sorry your little boy had to go through that. It seems to me once responsibility becomes too much they just walk away because it suits them. Its pretty low to do it at any time but to bond with a child then just leave like its not important anymore is unforgivable. I have opinions on people that support these men too. I can honestly say I would not be with a man if he did not see his child.......no excuses. And I'd want some really good evidence for a story that says 'her mother won't let me see her'