I feel all I ever do is compare mine and my DDs life to the families around us. We live in a fairly affluent area and my DD goes to a small rural school, I am definitely the only single parent there. All my friends are in long term relationships, married or engaged. Most have mortgages, holidays etc.
Then I look at my own life and compare it to everyone else's. I have no savings and am currently renting. I'm a student, although don't have much longer to go until I have my career. I do have friends but feel they are becoming few and far between now they are all settling down with their partners etc and are always too busy with their own lives at weekends.
I feel lonely and that I have no chance of meeting anyone at this rate! I never go on nights out, I've become a bit of a hermit and end up staying in in the evenings reading and watching tele!
This is all so pathetic because I had my DD young and I am only in my mid twenties now. I know I will have a mortgage one day, I hope to have more children and meet someone else. It's just hard watching everyone around you doing all these things and feeling a bit useless. I'm so grateful for a healthy DD, and my nearly finished degree. I just feel like I should have my act together by now. Which is daft really.
Thanks for reading, it's already helped just to get it all out!
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Juno321 · 20/01/2015 12:42
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