I am in need of some sensible and practical advice, its been a long time since I was on MN but knew it was the place to go! I wont give you the life saga (its an epic tale of bad decisions on my behalf). Current situ is I have DS of twenty who is happy and making his own way in the world and DS of two (yes you read that correctly).
I am a full time stay at home mummy there is sadly no OH or DH its just me and my boy. I live in a tiny village in a private rented house which we have to leave soon, I came back here for me and the little ones dad to try and work things out this isn’t going to happen. He has not changed nor never will, lesson learnt. Hindsight it’s a wonderful thing.
I have few friends, no hobbies and rarely go anywhere as I have no support from family with childcare. My previous employment is not suitable now as it is all shift work so there are no job prospects on the horizon.
So I am in the position of having to move house (again arrrghhh) and I am thinking of taking a big leap. I have my HNC in Social Care and have for as long as I remember wanted to go to uni gain my degree and become a social worker. I have applied for a place this year. I have also applied for a counselling course I am interested in.
My DS (the little one) has started a wee playgroup twice a week he calls it his school he loves it and wants to go every day. This makes me happy knowing he would be ok if I went to uni or back to work. I don’t know whether to move locally and wait to see if I get a uni place or just go rather than move twice. Im tired of moving. What do you think?
If any of you have been in the same position I would love to hear from you.
Little DS has regular contact with his dad just now its one Saturday night a fortnight and just the Sunday the following week. Where I am thinking of moving to is just over an hours drive away. We agreed he could have little one every second weekend for full weekend as that would suit dad better for work commitments. I am happy to share travel with him. Its not my DS fault his dad is an arse (sorry).
I know uni is huge and will be hard work. I am 36 yrs old and feel I am going nowhere fast and there is nothing to keep me here. I am so lonely anyway. I would like to give my DS a better quality of life than I can just now and I am going to be raising him alone.
My apologies for this epic post trying to be brief but get all the important bits in! Your thoughts would be appreciated.
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mzundastood · 11/01/2015 00:03
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