I left due to violence during my second pregnancy he still had contact with my daughter but became violent beating me till my waters went causing an infection and the baby dying.
Any way long story short. Two years later he wants to legalise the contact he's got, Friday -sat week 1 and Friday- Sunday week 2
My question is.
If this is legalised I don't want him to have Christmas Day with her, probably selfishly as Im alone and her dad has another baby ect, I'm naturally extremely upset he gets to have what I wanted and he took from me!!
I also don't want him to have birthdays with her ( her birthdays the same day as mine, tho am happy for him to have her day after if weekend & Boxing Day
If contact is legalised naturally I'll push for these days to be with me but he'll be fighting the opposite battle, how does this normally pan out ??
And what's the normal amount of contact time for sperm donors to have as I can then minimise this with no fuss or violent outburst from him
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Avagracesmum262 · 10/01/2015 18:04
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