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Maintenance and re-marriage

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FTS123 · 10/11/2014 20:13

So, if a mum was to re-marry, would the father of her children then stop paying maintenance for the children?

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Oswin · 10/11/2014 20:15

Nope the father is still responsible for his children.

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LadySybilLikesCake · 10/11/2014 20:16

As far as I'm aware, no. He may do if your OH adopts them though.

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HattyMonkey · 10/11/2014 20:16

No the money is for the children not the ex wife.

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FTS123 · 10/11/2014 20:24

Ha! I knew I was right!! A friend of mine has found themselves in this situation, but I figured maintenance was still paid as it's for the kids not the mother - thanks all

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MuttonCadet · 10/11/2014 20:26

Child maintenance yes, spousal maintenance no, (but I don't think that's very common nowadays).

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latorgator · 10/11/2014 21:14

If the RP marries, has more kids nothing changes. If the non RP marries, has more kids or marries someone with kids then it's reduced (I believe!

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LadySybilLikesCake · 10/11/2014 22:54

Yup, that's right. There's a cap on how many children it's reduced for though. If the NRP has/moves in with a new partner who has children, it stops being reduced at three.

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StardustBikini · 11/11/2014 07:23

The RP is financially affected if they move in with a partner in as much as the state reassesses the household income for benefit purposes. The "new partner" is deemed to have financial responsibility for DCs with whom they live, regardless of relationship - legally or biologically.

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HeadDoctor · 11/11/2014 08:13

The NRP doesn't pay less maintenance if they marry. It's only if they have more children (own or step) living with them that it would reduce.

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needaholidaynow · 11/11/2014 09:15

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Smukogrig · 11/11/2014 17:49

I hope not, but in reality, I bet it happens, the father looks on at the family and if they're not starving, he'd cut the maintenance.

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