I work for myself at home on the laptop and have my boy aged 9 and have been raising him alone since he was 5 months. I have no family support and I have lived in this location for 6 years and have been using the same childminder.
I have been running my own business for 4 years and over school hols. have been using the same person who on the whole does a pretty good job.
On Friday my son was asked by her why I didn't have him on my own at home while I worked. I am rather perplexed why this has come up now.
Would you be unduly put out by this comment?
If I did that I would have to stimulate entertain him alongside my own work and it would be virtually impossible to get anything done. Also my son, naturally being an only child, needs to mix and get out with others as much as possible. Surely this should be obvious to a childminder, no?
She is quite happy to have him so it was probably an off the cuff comment I have no idea. I am still rather put out that something has been said at all. My son he didn't know why he couldn't be here with me while I worked. So that perhaps didn't sound too good lol but anyway he is only 9!
I also have to go out and sort things out alongside my week and it is quicker to get it all done while my boy is in the childcare e.g. supermarket and so on.
Would you be rather offended or perplexed how does it sound to you?
Like I say she has no problem with him nor does my son so not sure why this has come up out of the blue like this.
Hope you can give some insight ladies! Thank you for reading.
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equinox · 17/08/2014 19:22
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