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AGHHH.... ex-H is such a plonker

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Henbird Fri 27-Jun-14 09:14:01

I just need a rant.....! My ex-H lost his job several months ago and stopped paying maintenance (child not spousal) 3 months ago although since then has been on a 5* holiday with them. He has now restarted work but as a consultant. He has a limited company and so is paying his salary through that - although a very small salary so he doesn't have to pay as much child maintenance as when he was in full time employment. Is it me or is that just morally wrong? I realise he still has a lifestyle to fund and appearances to keep up, but really is it fair his kids are living off supermarket own brand food whilst he stocks up on Waitrose and M&S. Please tell me if I'm being unreasonable!!

17leftfeet Fri 27-Jun-14 09:20:04

You are right it's not morally right but he is acting within the law

Massive issue where the NRP is self employed

shoopshoopsong Fri 27-Jun-14 09:21:19

You're not being unreasonable. Keeping up appearances isn't a priority, supporting his children is and should come first. Have you spoken to him about it?

Henbird Fri 27-Jun-14 09:25:04

I've tried talking to him but he just says he doesn't have any money. His wife also works and has a good job, which I guess complicates matters further. Not only do they have a very comfortable lifestyle, but if he's also self-employed it looks like I'm in for a rough ride. I am thinking of going down the legal route, but looks like I probably won't have much luck. I'm all for tightening belts when times are tough but I think his belt seems to have quite a lot of slack to it!! It's actually gone past the lack of money coming in to the kids and is now more the principle of the thing. AGHHH!

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