It's 6 months down the line since he left. To be honest he doesn't want her much anyway but every time he takes dd now 2.5 makes me shake and feel sick and I actually do vomit with stress.
I am extremely close to my dd. he left me for this girl 11 years younger and no kids. He left his ex when his son was 2 for someone else (not me I came many years later).
I feel raw and emotional about everything. He hasn't been supportive and has been vindictive and horrid as have his family.
I just feel overwhelmed tonight. He wants to take her to this sluts house tomorrow night for a bit and bring dd back at 7. How stupid. She ll probably fall asleep in his car on the way there or back. Why does he have to take her there and so late. She needs a bath at 7. It's going to mess up her routine.
I'm just reeling that this isn't just a one off but I am stuck with him forever. I have no choice but to send my precious child off to that evil bastard and his slut because every child deserves to have that relationship with their parents. I know that but I just feel sick absolutely sick that he is making this girl so involved in our dd. I can't stop crying. I won't sleep tonight and I've got a headache and my stomach is churning. I can't bear it. How can I cope with this forever? I know as she gets older it may get easier but I just want him to go away forever I never want to see him or speak to him again :-( I'm so low.
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GEM33 · 19/06/2014 00:45
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