I've been seeing a guy, today he was out for football or something. Absolutely find no issues with that.
He phoned tonight saying he would pop up for a bit if I wanted and I said no, he sounded pretty hammered and he was best off just staying where he was.
My ExH was an abusive alcoholic and whilst I have no problem with anyone drinking and drink myself I don't really want someone who's been out most of the afternoon and very drunk. For one I'm sober and drunk people annoy the hell out of me when I'm sober, two it's a wasted visit if he's as drunk as he sounds on the phone three, he has a perfectly good home 10 minutes from where he is and four, I know it would remind me of when my ex used to come home in that way and it's not a feeling I like. He know's how I feel about it from previous conversations.
This guy doesn't have an "issue" with alcohol, he's just been on a bit of a bender today but he knows my ex and knows bits of what I went through. He has now twice said "I'm not xxxxx" and it's pissed me off. I feel like he's dismissing how I feel entirely based on the fact he isn't my X IYSWIM.
It's actually making me question what is an otherwise good thing.
I know this isn't AIBU but I'm going to ask the question here as AIBU would probably be slightly more brutal.
So AIBU?
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Cupid5tunt · 11/05/2014 21:44
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