Basically ex husband messed son about for a year with contact , not turning up, seeing him as little as possible, wanting to fit son around his hobby or he wouldn't turn up, then as I said regular contact or don't bother as it was upsetting for son he took his get out of parenting pass and ran.
Its been a year of no contact at all and suddenly after watching a film where a dinosaur finds his long list dad it had opened up old wounds.
Son does have additional needs ans will obsess over things and he says he wants to see his dad and have a go at him, but then will say he wants a dad.
I have been in touch with ex husband to see basically whether he would see him as son obsessing and wanting me to drive and find him.
Ex basically said he will see him but it's don't blame him for any upset as he will be walking away
So do you think I should let son see dad fir closure hoping ex will put it across he can't be a dad and my son will accept it rather than hearing me saying it or will it cause more upset?
Son has been crying all week so he in a bad way but I don't know whether he will get closure or make it worse?
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exmrs · 28/03/2014 21:30
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