Hi- I don't know if this ramble will make any sense but I'd be truly grateful for some guidance;
I split with my husband 6 months ago- after trying to make it work for 2 yrs or so( we was together 10 years)
He had 2 children from a previous marriage he never saw as he said he couldn't afford the legal costs to fight his ex- who was making life awkward with his kids and his contact)I give you this background as it's relevant-
Moving on now- he has a flat just around the corner and had been an ok father when together.... But.. We split as he wanted to ride to the top of his profession and didn't want the ties of family life- wanted to be away- taking clients for meals etc.
So now we are at the point he has his son tues night and Friday night into sat morning.
But he "forgets" to call our 6 yr old son "because I was busy having a meal" .
When I pull him on this he says " I'm sorry" but then gets nasty.
This is a man I've watched cry because he doesn't see or even have the opportunity to speak to his children in a phone call.
I'm so angry these past few days - it's like a delayed reaction to our split.
I'm angry he forgets his son, I'm angry his life carries on as normal, living the high life, whilst I am scrimping and scraping each day, I'm angry I've become a single parent and see no hope of meeting anyone again and just existing - where is this coming from and how can I be strong enough to get through it??
I wanted to split- aswell as him- so why am I now so angry?
The lack of phone calls to his son because he forgot really hurts- who forgets their child? I don't, I call 7am & 7pm when he's with his dad :-( please help? Xxx
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ej3166 · 28/03/2014 09:44
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