Split with xp 3yrs ago - primarily as a result of his actions (by hid own admission).
Until now he has remained local. Sees dcs most days for a short period. Has them overnight for 3 nights per fortnight.
Next week he is moving away a 90min + journey.
In the short term he will continue to work here and commute so him taking the burden for the travel every other weekend shouldn't be a problem. Long term hasn't been discussed.
If you have been in a similar situation how has the travelling worked logistically?
I obviously don't want to and won't stop them seeing their dad, but given that I was put in a position of being a single parent that I didn't choose; and now through no choice of my own am being put in a position where xp lives a fair distance away I'm not sure that I should be responsible for driving for 3hrs jyst to drop off or collect dc. I don't even particularly want to dtive half way. It's a horrible largely single carriageway hgv route.
As I say there is no conflict at the mo. I'm just trying to get a picture of scenarios that other people make work for them.
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EdwiniasRevenge · 06/02/2014 01:14
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