Back story - divorced 9 yrs, ds has regular contact, including blocks of time in holidays. Ds now 13 and seems to be clashing with his step mum at the moment, his dad and I still only communicate via email as otherwise ex screams abuse.
Anyway, ds went over to his dads yesterday for a block amount of days. I don't usually hear from him except the odd text telling me what hes doing.
Yesterday I had 45 texts throughout the day and night, basically saying he was upstairs in his room crying, missing me and later couldn't sleep as step mum had taken his light bulb out and his lamp out (hes not keen on absolute dark) and told him to keep his door closed because of a visiting puppy.
I'm at a bit of a loss what to do. All access is by contact order so he can't turn round to his dad and say he wants to change things or vary things (said in text wanted to come home as heard her say she didn't want him there)
Sorry for length - if I contact ex what do I say, or do I leave it and try and communicate with ex once ds comes back next week?
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inthename · 27/12/2013 08:06
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