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A bit about my situation.
I'm 36, married with 2 children, (ages: Dd 10 and Ds 4)
When Dd was 3 I got a young girl knocking on my door saying that my then boyfriend had got her pregnant and had a little girl. Now I'm from very strict Hindu back ground and went through so much heartache to be with him. He had cheated, lied and was really nasty to me. I had no one in my life for support as family and friends disowned me for being with him. Anyway after about a year we got back together and had my son in 2009 marrying in 2010. Now he's in the other child's life and sees her on Saturdays and helps financially. After getting married he wanted our children to meet. My daughter found it hard but now accepts and loves her. My son is fine. He left to live away from us about a year ago and has left me to bring up the children on my own. He sees them about every fortnight. He still expects to see me when he see all three of them. Just to mention after the children met I let her come to my house for visits. Now after he's left me he still wants me to see him and her while he says we are still married and does not understand why I'm so upset. I've since moved and all access is at his mothers house. Feel so ashamed and humiliated as everyone is laughing at me. I only see him with her. So no relationship really just me being a mug and looking after them while he gets to play. So confused. Self esteem on the floor.
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Canary77 · 25/12/2013 12:55
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