I messaged him today about some money stuff and he repiled "I can't find my hotel". Well I was bemused, "what?" I said. He said "I'm in Barcelona and I can't remember where my hotel is". The last he told me was that he was working on check in at the airport! He then swore at me and made out I was unreasonable because I was pissed that he hadn't let me know he was out of the country! We have kids for goodness sake. He doesn't have to fill me in on details of his every minute but for goodness sake I don't think it's unreasonable to know where he is so I can contact him incase of emergency!? I am soooooo mad right now I can't sleep. Help me please. xxxx
I really feel for you. It's only been a few weeks for me and to break that tie is so so hard. I'm still reeling from being lied to about why my ex left, although I now feel that it's definitely for the best and the OW is welcome to him! But yes, it's hard working on detaching yourself when you spent so long being close together. Don't beat yourself up about it xx
I just seem to keep crying all the time and feel overwhelmed and so very very sad. Like its been mentioned we were a family unit and am no longer. It's like waking up in a bad dream everyday. It would be easier if I hated him but I don't.
And Paperlantern, I believe that's been covered. Don't think you need to bash me anymore over it. As I have also mentioned, I am still struggling to come to terms with it all. I would hope I could be a little more empathetic to someone else in a similar situation.