so today ex told me he only wants kids every other weekend as planned no extra days in the holidays
i said fine (cant force him) and then he said but you cant stop me having them odd days for days out when he wants
he actually expects me to sit around all summer hols dropping what we are doing if he decides him and his gf want the girls that day, i have told him no and we need to (if possible) set up contact during the hols that suits the girls and means we both get plenty of fun in the sun with them because he cant just pick and choose if he sees them
what can we do? he wont talk to me face to face its all through text (saved the texts saying he doesnt want them any extra days) so im not sure medation is going to be any good?
i dont want to go down the court route but if he suddenly rings says i want them tomorrow can i say no if we have plans will it go against me if it goes to court, i have offered several different options during the holidays block weeks, extra days added to the weekends he has them or extra days mid week and none are good enough he just wants to choose closer to the time with no notice and im expected to give in i dont know where i stand on this, until now holidays hes always had them extra days tagged onto the weekends he has them (eow) and said no to block weeks
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keelyboo · 20/05/2013 20:28
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