Ex is actually having the dc overnight for once (having been promising them he would for the last 5 weeks) He's 'meant' to pick them up midmorning , but isn't coming until 3. (When I say 'meant' I mean what we have agreed, not court ordered)
Anyway, he has asked me to give them a cooked dinner at lunchtime, as that's what they (him, gf and her dc) do, and there will be lunch as an evening meal.
I don't normally eat a hot meal at lunchtime. Now obviously I will cook for them, as they might not get a cooked meal if I don't, but I wondered what others did? Obviously I dont think they should have to change their routine to suit my dc, but then why should I change mine to suit hers? It's only since he met her that he has eaten his hot meal at lunchtime, previously he thought that was weird!
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IneedAyoniNickname · 11/05/2013 11:18
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