I've been to my Solicitor about this before and they've said basically they can't force him to see them.
He was emotionally and physically abusive and it's been really hard to keep in contact with him but I've done so for the benefit of the DC's. He's gone from regularly having them once a month to having them one weekend in two months if they're lucky. He's being doing this on and off since before Christmas butThe last time for example whenhe had them he brought them back a day early than planned and literally gave me 30minutes notice, thankfully I managed to control the fallout with the DC's and they weren't majorly upset like they were the last time he did it but it's getting a regular thing and confusing the DC's.
I stopped telling them as it was setting them up for dissappointment but he told the DC's himself on the Phone Monday that he was having them this weekend and then popped over this morning to tell me he's changed his mind as he's 'busy' . I feel like I'm giving him too many chances but at the same time recognise he and his DC's still need a relationship.
Would you put your foot down or am I just being a bit precious?
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Misspixietrix · 08/05/2013 14:55
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