After a bit of advice here please. Me and ex broke up when dd a baby. She is now 7 and has lately started being upset that we are not together, obviously she is now old enough to realise the alternative. I had a text from ex today saying that she has been upset about this today (they are away together). He thinks that me meeting his gf with my dd would help as she would realise that we are all happy with the set up. I don't see that this would help and do not want to meet the gf and I am not 'happy' with the set up but just don't make a big deal about it. Am I being selfish to not want to meet the gf or am I right in thinking that this is not necessary and that he should concentrate on making our dd feel like she is important to him?
More importantly, should I be addressing this with dd as I don't want her to be unhappy or is it just a normal phase for a child to wish her parents were together?
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onoroff · 13/04/2013 18:52
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