found out today from my niece (well exdp's but we were family for a long time) that he isnt caring for his mum and is just claiming the benefits his sister (nieces mum) is doing a lot of the caring hospital apts shopping etc and as hes practically living with his gf now it makes sense because she lives a good 40-50min drive from his mum depending on traffic.
i dont get maintenance because ive held back as he gets so little and he has them every other weekend, thinking he was trying to be a good person caring for his mum and going without etc as he gets so little though he could earn extra and work around caring but never has, hes lazy.
my mum says i should report him then he will have to get a job and the kids might stop going without then, but it just seems so harsh but i am really struggling and dont see why we should while hes sitting on his backside living at his girlfriends getting all the benefits for having his own house etc and not paying for his children
I also found out hes pirating dvds and not just for him hes making extra money selling them through a friend because the kids told me i mean what sort of example is he setting them?
bit of a what would you do question really?
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keelyboo · 10/04/2013 13:55
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