Advanced search

Unrelated sharing beds?

(4 Posts)
keelyboo Mon 25-Mar-13 13:49:03

My children did the first sleepover at my exs new gfs on sat (only met her 3 times so i wasnt happy but i always try to be reasonable) however they came home yesterday and told me that my dd7 shared a bed with her ds6. I told him i didnt really think it appropriate especially as there are enough beds for it not to happen and he thinks im being silly.
I know they are innocent children but i think they should be protecting them from day one i know full well one badly timed comment could cause a whole heap of problems.
Im not happy about them sleeping there but hes planning on moving in with her asap so i sucked it up because they need to get to know her and be happy as when hes living there they will spend every other weekend there, but i just want my one wish listened to.

Ready to accept im being silly over it, and if not where do i go from here to make him listen.

kinkyfuckery Mon 25-Mar-13 15:50:14

Possibly could be that they wanted to share a bed, sleepover style?

I have no problem with my DD (7) sharing a bed when she has a sleepover with a friend. I think you're probably reading more into it because it is your ex's new gf.

DeskPlanner Mon 25-Mar-13 19:28:50

There was a very similar thread a few days ago on AIBU , might be worth a search. It was about someone's Dd sharing a bed with her dads girlfriends brother who was about 10.

makemineamalibuandpineapple Sun 31-Mar-13 18:51:22

I wouldn't think this was appropriate and wouldn't be happy. Do you think this relationship will last? You say she is a new gf. What if in a few months they split up, he gets a new one and she is sharing with another child. There needs to be some boundaries and sleeping in her own bed would be an unnegotiable one for me.

Join the discussion

Registering is free, easy, and means you can join in the discussion, watch threads, get discounts, win prizes and lots more.

Register now »

Already registered? Log in with: