Yummy you sound like how I was. I tried everything. DD is four months now. I don't see why I should pay to go to court when it's him choosing to not see her. The final straw was when he threw a tantrum after threading to take her from me after I said no to a visit involving 3.5 hours out of 4 in a car.
We haven't heard a thing since. I have tried all I can, everything is documented in a diary, emails and texts printed out for an event such as court or DD when she's older if e tries to brainwash her. Have you tried saying no phone contact? How old is LO? Could anyone else supervise him? The stress of the situation your in has made me very ill. I hope it gets sorted
Yes I'm kinda hoping he can't be bothered with the legal stuff, I have whittled down contact slowly to this & he would never a free to mediation or a contact centre, he won't even just meet up for a morning as he doesn't want to be seen as a sad dad, his loss though as I paid for a room for 2 nights so he cold see DD for her birthday but he said he would only meet up if we stayed with him....power stuff.
At what point did/do you decide when its Just not going to work? When even a short Phone call ends in an argument & you simply Can't find any middle ground ? If he won't compromise or meet you half Way. Then..how do you sustain basic Safe, contact. My ex has only now got access via mobile & I'm thinking I may even have to block Calls so he can only text.he's such a pain .? Your stories welcome:-)