Hi all
I posted this in AIBU too but thought some of you on this topic might have experience of this type of situation.....
I have been separated - amicably - from my ex husband since September 2011. He moved out at the beginning of last year. We have 2 kids together, aged 4 and 8. We are in the process of getting divorced.
I have been seeing someone since March last year, initially on a very casual basis, but over the last few months it has become more serious, and we are starting to plan a future together
He first met my kids in September, as a friend, and over the last couple of months we have hung out together a few times, and they get on really well.
My children spend 3/4 days per week with their dad, and the remaining days with me. At present both my boyfriend and I work away a lot, so there are occasions when the only time we can see each other is when I have the kids staying over.
Last weekend he stayed over on Saturday night, and we all hung out in the morning. The kids seemed happy and unfazed by it. I told my ex today as I thought it better they hear it from me than from the kids and he was I think a bit shocked.
What do you all think (please be gentle)?
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gonenative · 21/01/2013 22:12
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