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wobbles and run away friends

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cheesesarnie Wed 12-Dec-12 15:49:41

ex moved out a week and a half ago.

i don't want him back and we're getting on well. dc are all ok..... but i keep crying over the silliest things! i wait till dc aren't here or are in bed but when it starts i cant stop it!
i feel like everyone and everything is against me!
which isn't helped from my closest friends not contacting me since ex and i split up (over a month ago). they've gone out of their way to make sure ex is ok but ignored me. do i call?

i feel so lonely sad

Ghostsgowoooh Wed 12-Dec-12 16:22:08

Sod them I say, if they can make sure your ex is ok but not extend their concerns to you then I just wouldn't bother, were they the exs friends first?

This happened to me too with one of my closest friends. In fact recently I found out that she was only friendly to me because of ex and that hurt. I still miss her though.

cheesesarnie Wed 12-Dec-12 16:34:55

nope mine. infact they were never very keen on him.

Jules666 Sun 23-Dec-12 09:46:16

Just wondering how you know that they've been contacting your ex. If he's told you this I'd take it with a pinch of salt, although they aren't very good friends to not contact you to see if you're OK.

Unfortunately you find out who are friends are when you need them. I know things are hard now but they will get better. Just take each day at a time.

cheesesarnie Sun 23-Dec-12 22:26:28

he told me but since i posted this i contacted them. they said theyd been really worried about him and taken him out etc.

feeling more positive smile

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