Sorry I just need to vent my annoyance
Stbxh has seen 2yr old dd once in the last 14 weeks, thinks he is father of the year etc amongst our colleagues at work etc. Even though he has been rubbish at seeing dd I arranged with him some contact with her over Xmas as I feel it's important for her to see both parents on Xmas day. He was to have her Xmas eve till 11 on Xmas morning. I was going to collect her from bil (who lives in same town as me). He lives 30 miles away. I get a call from him this morning asking if he can have her in the 23rd aswell which I said yes to as again I know she needs daddy dd time. He then says 'by the way I'm not bringing dd over on Xmas day till 4 in the afternoon as ow doesn't want to leave the cats a long time'.... Wtf?!?
He didn't care that plans are in place for dd, I could like it or lump it. Then ontop of the above says he is having her Boxing Day morning. I'm feeling pissed off, possibly unreasonably so, but none the less I'm annoyed
Can he tell me when he is having considering he has made no efforts to establish any routine for her? It just feels like he shows dd off when his family are about but doesn't care the rest of the time.
Again sorry just needed to vent, I should be happy that he wants to see her but at the mo I'm so annoyed
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Ladylou83 · 10/12/2012 22:21
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