I don't really know what to do for the best and terrified of making yet another wrong decision.
Quite new to this so will try give as much info as possible. I am a lone parent with a ds of 7. I am also studying full time on a course that requires me to go to work placements. While on placement my dm helps out in the morning with ds and I use a child minder for after school.
I hate having to rely on dm in the morning as we don't have a good relationship but it's really the easiest option. We were living together which meant I could just get up and go without waking ds, but she has moved out now and I can't afford the rent alone.
My problem is, I don't know where to go now! My options are to either take a smaller, cheaper private rent or move into dm's spare room and go on the list for LA housing which could take forever.
It doesn't sound like much of a problem reading it back but I seem to be having a really hard time deciding what to do. To paint a better picture, I am on AD's and also have alcohol issues and attend AA meetings regularly which help. But due to my 'issues', before I seeked any help for them, I made a lot of bad decisions. To cut a long story short, a lot of house moves and a school move for ds.
He is fed up moving house, quite rightly so, and fed up having to make new friends every time we move. He just wants to settle and do do I. But I can't. I don't know why I keep moving, it's a big hassle and expense but I can't stop!
I don't really know what I'm looking for by posting here, words of wisdom maybe, or a kick up the arse and a "get a grip!!", perhaps. But it's a worth a try coz I feel done in thinking about it :(
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Lostgirl27 · 19/11/2012 16:42
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