Hi
Can anyone give me some legal advice please. My daughter is 8 months old. Me and her father seperated as soon as she was born. Her father does have her overnight on Fridays and she sees him regularly which I'm pleased about. A month ago I went on holiday with our baby. I asked her father 1st and listened to his concerns. He said he was worried I would not be able to cope with both my children on holiday. I thought he might have a point so a paid for my mum to go also so she could help. He said she would get too hot so I agreed we would not leave our villa til the afternoon etc etc. He still said he didn't want her to go but I felt he was being unreasonable so we went. I made sure to video call him regularly so our baby could see her Dad. On our return her Dad told me that he and his family had also booked a holiday for next May. He did not ask me if I had any concerns and I feel it was done vindictively. I would love her to go on holiday with him but the problem is they are going with his sisters boyfriend who I feel to be a pedofile. Her boyfriend used to be her teacher when she was 16 and had a relationship with her at this age (he is MUCH older). 2 years ago he lost his teaching job and said it was down to "job cuts". He hasn't tried to get a teaching job again instead taking delivery jobs and other low paid employment. From someone who went to where he taught we heard that he had lost his job because there were many other instances of relationships with young girls and he was banned from teaching. This seems to fit as I rang the college and asked if there had been job cuts. They said no and it's fishy that he is no longer seeking work as a teacher. Me and my ex both agree that he is a very creepy character. My ex has agreed that he won't leave our daughter alone with him but when they are all staying in the se apartment anything could happen at night time. Is there anything I can do? Would a court take my worries into account if I agreed to a holiday just not with his sisters boyfriend.
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Sue13032012 · 09/11/2012 09:35
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