My ex put forward a plan yesterday for contact over christmas and i'm not too sure what to think about it, would really like some opinions.
He's moving down to london soon to be with his girlfriend (we're in glasgow) and he doesn't know if his girlfriends work schedule will allow them to come up at christmas (hes not working atm and probably won't be before then, knowing him). He's suggesting that on boxing day the children travel down to london with his parents and come back on the friday.
They will be driving so i'm thinking easily 7 hours drive and I can see a few problems with this. I don't really think its fair to expect them to sit in a car for that length of time- its christmas and they'll be all excited and wanting to play with their new toys not stuck in a car for hours. Also what if the weather is bad? I don't like the idea of them travelling so much if the winter is as bad as what they are predicting. Another problem is that his gran moves in with his parents over the christmas period and if they all go to london , she can't go so will be left all alone ( I know this isn't my problem but adds to my unwillingness to agree to this).
I think this is so much hassle, when the easiest solution would be for him to come up (without the girlfriend if needs be)- In my head, he made the decision to move so it should be him having to put himself out to see the children, rather than the other way about. Am i being unreasonable? ( not brave enough to put this is that category(
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TimrousBeastie · 31/10/2012 13:17
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