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ex looking at porn when kids are around, what do I do?

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sheepsgomeeping Tue 16-Oct-12 18:24:14

Accidently posted this onsomeones thread, oops will try again . Found ex had been looking at porn pages on the family laptop when he comes up to sit with the kids when I go to college on a wed. Kids are around when he does it.

Pages are often youngish looking mid to late teens and he has been out with two 15 years olds before he met me 7 years ago.

This isn't the first time he's done this and he's just a horrible piece of shit. My skin is crawling and I don't want him anywhere near me or the kids, he's mentally unstable at times and unreasonable and aggressive towards us all .

Stop contact or not? My younger wee ones adore him. But he's such a horrible weird person. Not sure what to do

purplewithred Tue 16-Oct-12 18:33:25

I appreciate that this arrangement means the kids have contact with him and you get a babysitter, but really is it worth it if it means you have to have him in your house? and on your computer? yeuch. Stop it right now.

MaBaya Tue 16-Oct-12 18:34:52

Stop contact. Talk to a solicitor. Exposing children to porn is a child protection issue - and this could very easily happen if he is accessing it on a family laptop.

peppapigpants Tue 16-Oct-12 19:29:17

Who is your broadband provider? Mine is Talk Talk and they have the facility to block porn and other websites.

sheepsgomeeping Tue 16-Oct-12 20:39:17

It's sky.
I challenged him earlier and he turned it all back on me and accused me of sleeping with men in the house with the kids here which I've never ever done, I've never been with anyone else since him! I wish!

He absolutely did not care one bit I'd caught him

FannyBazaar Tue 16-Oct-12 20:53:26

Can you set up a password on the laptop and turn on the parental control settings?

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