DD has literally just turned 5 and is in reception, she has been full-time for a week. Her father and I have been seperated for 3 years, he has alternate weekend contact only by his choice. He has booked a weekend away at the end of the month and wants DD to miss school on the Monday to travel back (though it isn't far.) I don't agree with her missing school, particularly while it's all so new. We went away last weekend for her birthday and were booked to stay until Monday but came back on Sunday for school. I told him I disagree but he applied to the school to authorise the absense anyway (despite it being during my contact time.) The schools attendance policy says they only authorise absenses in exceptional circumstances so I thought they'd say no, but they haven't. DD is distraught - she doesn't want to miss school and her friends and she is desperate to receive an end of term 100% attendance certificate like them. I strongly disagree for the right reasons, but if I say no now that the school have said yes I'll look petty. I reiterated to DD how important school is last weekend when we couldn't stay away longer for her birthday and she understands that but it is hypocritical if I let her father make her miss it. What would you do?
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jenrose29 · 19/09/2012 22:17
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