My DDs (11 & 10) are suppose to see their father for agreed hours once a week. I say suppose to because that's usually as far as it gets. Unfortunately, this is nothing new.
It goes in a pattern you see, he sees them and takes them places and does fun stuff with them; then he has to work more or is unwell (on an alarmingly regular basis for a perfectly healthy person); the contact drops off entirely until they become convenient for him again.
Only, I know that he is not always doing extra work or suffering in his bed as he has been seen countless times by my friends in bars or town or simply doing his shopping.
My DDs love spending time with him but they are growing tired of constantly taking second place to whatever he feels like doing instead.
Should I simply cut contact to prevent further suffering to my children?
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Rathen · 13/09/2012 19:45
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