I was wondering if anyone could give any insight into how things work access wise with DCs if you live a long way away from your ex.
I am trying to prepare myself as best as I can about becoming a LP and how to cope with it all. My son is still young, just 16 months.
Basically, we live in an expensive part of the south east at the moment, and I won't be able to afford to stay living here when I'm on my own. I'd also want a fresh start so I'm keen to move much further west.
My soon to be ex will want regular access/visits to see his son and I am happy with that. But how do you best work this out if you live a long way away? He won't be able to drop by (fine by me), so I suppose it will be mainly holidays and weekends etc. Maybe that means your ex simply gets to do all the fun stuff with none of the day to day responsibilites....
On a practical level, I'm worried it's going to be us meeting half way at a motorway service station, which sounds depressing. I have a friend whose parents divorced when she was young, and she said these 'drop offs' were some of the worst memories of her childhood :(
does anyone have any advice/words of warning?
thank you
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GingerBeer1234 · 03/09/2012 10:41
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