Hi
This is my 1st post and would really appreciate your advice.
After 3 years of trying to get regular contact with my 2 children (now aged 12 & 8) following an acrimonious divorce, I have been awarded indirect contact by the courts.
I am bitterly disappointed with this as I feel the children have been alienated against me by their mother after 2 years of not seeing them. Indeed the CAFCASS officer & child phsycologist agreed their mother's hostility towards me had a big bearing on the children's view of me but ultimately the court decided at this time it was in the children's best interest not to have direct contact with me. The court ordered the mother to send me a monthly update of the children's progress at school etc and to facilitate delivery of letters, cards etc and birthday, Christmas presents etc.
I today attended the youngest boy's school sports day and did not speak with him apart from a cheery "well done L" and a thumbs up as he passed me.
His mother then proceeded to shout at me for breaking the court order. I do not think I have as there are no restraining orders etc against me....what do you think??
many thanks
Jon
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jonandrew · 03/07/2012 16:51
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