Am feeling a bit . Until recently I always said that I would wait months and months before introducing my kids to any new partner of mine, but now that I actually have a new partner, I'm wondering....
New man has 2 kids who live with him 100% of the time and my kids live 100% with me.
New man is proposing taking kids out to park together next weekend in a casual way and getting some lunch... I guess I would introduce him as a friend and his kids the same.
I have read threads on here about ladies who spend time with their partners while kids are with their ex and it's great, but it's just not an option at all in my situation.
OMG, am so confused.... Still stuck in the mindset of you can hurt me but god forbid you mess my kids about, after years of an abusive relationship where my instinct was to protect them from their father.
Wonder if I;m blowing this all out of proportion? I'm talking about a day out in the park with a friend with their kids, not having new man move in or stay the night????
Help/advise please!!!
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sorry, realise it's been done a thousand times, but when to introduce kids to new dp?
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humptydidit · 08/10/2011 08:00
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